Trusting God When the Full Picture is Hidden

Genesis 37:34-35 (NIV)
“Then Jacob tore his clothes, put on sackcloth and mourned for his son many days. All his sons and daughters came to comfort him, but he refused to be comforted. ‘No,’ he said, ‘I will continue to mourn until I join my son in the grave.’ So his father wept for him.”

In Genesis 37, we find Jacob overwhelmed with grief after being misled into believing his beloved son Joseph was dead. Despite Jacob’s deep relationship with God, the Lord never revealed the truth — that Joseph was alive and on a path toward fulfilling his divine purpose. This silence wasn’t accidental; it was intentional.

God sometimes withholds certain aspects of our destiny from those closest to us — not out of cruelty, but out of wisdom. As parents, mentors, or spiritual guides, our natural protective instincts can conflict with God’s plan. Jacob’s love for Joseph was so strong that if he had known Joseph’s true path, he may have tried to interfere or rescue him from what appeared to be suffering — not realizing that Joseph’s trials were essential to his growth, leadership, and ultimate destiny.

The same can be true for us. Some aspects of our purpose are designed to unfold away from the immediate influence of those we hold dear. While family is foundational, there are moments when separation is necessary for spiritual elevation. Sometimes God will isolate us — not to harm us, but to develop us. Joseph’s separation prepared him to become a leader, positioned to save his family and an entire nation.

Furthermore, there are elements of our destiny that God reserves not for our parents, but for our spouse or future relationships. This isn’t to diminish the role of family, but rather to emphasize that certain revelations are meant for those aligned with our future rather than our past. Our spouse — our God-ordained partner — may be the one appointed to encourage us, pray with us, and steward us through specific seasons that even our parents may not fully understand.

If you find yourself walking a path that feels lonely or misunderstood, trust that God is working in the silence. He sees what others cannot. What may seem like a painful separation today could be the very thing that positions you for purpose tomorrow.

Reflection Questions:
1.Are you in a season where God seems to be withholding answers from those closest to you?
2.How can you lean into God’s wisdom instead of seeking immediate validation from others?
3.Are you willing to trust that God’s silence may be preparing you for something greater?

Prayer:

Father, thank You for the plans You have for my life — plans that are sometimes hidden from those closest to me. Help me to trust You when I feel isolated, misunderstood, or unsure of my path. Strengthen my faith to believe that Your silence is not abandonment, but preparation. Align me with the people and relationships that will nurture my destiny according to Your will. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

1 Comment


Tiffany Burrell - March 10th, 2025 at 3:15pm

Awesome message!